from the seven-year itch to ambush, marriage is two people of the war, is the highest intelligence and maximum number of characters between husband and wife are not clear. Some said it well: when his wife standing in the kitchen, floor brush plates, when her husband took a piece of newspaper, television daze, a war always and everywhere is an ambush, had quietly begun. At a press interview to nearly 20 couples, they talked about the story and life of the following scenarios, tone of voice was calm and vicissitudes.
1th ambush: . step by step expanding gap. Already has the gap between men and women, as women like Luo Mandi grams, men like Normandy; women love fashion, men like to wear fashion modeling. For couples, and in terms of lifestyle and taste, value orientation, hobbies have gaps, not only make the duo the world more colorful, exactly in line with the complementary rules.
the fear is that in addition to these differences, common interest between the two men could not be found. Weekend nights you can see your fashion magazines, he stood in front of the TV with a roar: me, why not enter one! you called him insane, he said: what do you know to enjoy life. We both feel that the other party did not taste, both in maintaining a superior spirit. And, second, to the end of the world you and a magazine, he and a TV.
one of fashion’s wife and her eyes off husband of slag is very dangerous, if not timely exchange and communication, no help and adjust to each other, eventually produces a force inexplicable feelings of dislike, then see him anywhere is thin.
2nd ambush: emotional life lacked color. It was stated that the love between husband and wife are metamorphic, after all, is the lovely romantic love evolved into flesh family. This is because the marriage than romantic love really long. So under this real marriages, love life in a fatigued state, no more innovation into a crude hard line in the youyanchaimi.
her husband not to buy roses for his wife, he thinks back to a bag of salt with a more meaningful. Wife know cooking Shi does not placed soup, several months down can let gas meter less go a a word; at home light with feet two years can province a double slippers; in balcony Shang took telescope see neighbors home of TV a months can saves once electric; only does not stingy of is she of mouth, all day long bla, you does not should such, you best as lost feelings color, instead of is life of machinery, and stereotyped and cumbersome.
actually men if experience of storm more has, on will has depth; woman if home of days long has, also will with Shang mature woman of charm mature men and mature woman who of charm, absolute is together bright of scenery line, important of is should knows how in each other before to show, knows how found new of way to expression each other of love and attached to, and cannot just is because has a copies common of marriage life, let this all lost has color sense.